World coming down

In short: Friday I will hand in (mail) my resignation and the tax office wants to audit me from 2015 back to 2010. How funny is that for somebody who can’t even open a letter? Well, I guess that is how karma works; life gets thrown at me until I deal. Not dealing? Throwing continues.

I am happy that I quit. I am also very sad. Not sure why. Because I feel like I can’t deal. Like I am not worth ‘it’, whatever that might mean. I find life too difficult sometimes. Now is one of those moments. I did call my SIL and she got some really great advise on trying to get the tax situation clear by asking questions. Hey!!! 😀 I would like to think I could have worked that one out myself but…. no. 🙂 Not now with my head, heart and body in stress. Last night I woke up with pain in my chest. Sometimes I can’t breathe well. I wish I would know what the heck I’m doing this all for. And then again: all I need to do is to get and stay clear and I guess working through this is part of that. 🙂 And in the end; take it one step further and un-mess my life. This is all just the result of not taking good care. And that is how Life is: if I do not set boundaries the outside world will do that for me. That is what happens when one drinks too much, that is what happens if one sits on one’s ass and lives without purpose and only reactive.

I’m off to bed. Very much in need of some good sleep. 🙂

I wish you all a good day/night.

xx, Feeling


10 thoughts on “World coming down

  1. I’m sorry to hear you are having to manage so much stress. The job compounded with the taxes is enough to give anyone a punch in the gut. … I will be thinking of you Friday. What would a woman who loves herself do? She would set boundaries and stand up for herself. YES. You deserve better, my friend. Absolutely. One-hundred percent. Love, -HM.*

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  2. You are much stronger than you think. Your blog has been a tremendous blessing to me since I found it last September. Through all my ups and downs, trying to quit, you have been a stable source of support through your writings. I would love to share a coffee with you some day. 😘😘

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  3. Hi Feeling! Good for you! Letting go of this job opens the door for something awesome for you. Sorry about the audit, but like you said life forces you to deal. Once you get through it (and you will) a lot of crap will be behind you and lots if good things ahead. Try not to stress too much, you’re going to get through it!

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